I’d like to think that I am a critical person who questions a lot. My teachers will say that it is a good thing and they will grant me good grades.
But when it comes to relationships, do ‘to question’ mean ‘to ask’ and ‘to ask’ mean ‘to demand’?
“How could you…?”
“Why did this…?”
“Where were..?”
“Who is ..?”
“Since when do we..?”
“How come we..?”
“Do you still..?”
“Is that true…?”
Do we expect merely answers? Or do we also expect actions to follow? Can we question things in relationship without being demanding? Will your significant other take your relationship questions the same way your math teacher take you algebra questions? Do you see now why I said I question things a lot?
I have lots of questions in my mind, including relationships, and I want to ask them out loud. And that’s the reason why I create this blog. I question, I ask, yet, I do NOT demand any answer or actions to follow, and I do NOT want to put pressure on anyone to answer those questions. So, if I don’t need answer, why question? To keep me sane, basically, having lots of things on my mind unsorted and unwritten kinda drive me crazy.
Of course I wont mind if any of you want to contribute some answers and insight. I’ll be glad in fact.
So will you take my hand and question with me?
